How to interest your wife/girlfriend in a threesome with an

When you first meet and feel that powerful ZING of sexual attraction, you are more than happy to jump into the sack several times a day with this "amazing woman". OK, so it slows down a little but you still can't get enough of her; then the years pass and you find yourself dreaming, looking for the pot of gold at the end of the mythical rainbow. A destination notoriously difficult to find.

The majority of men have fantasised about the holy grail of the threesome and of course this is a mff threesome. Yes....you and two sexy women. You have not a single doubt in your mind that you are going to find this to be one of the most satisfying sexual encounters of your life so far......but how to get your wife or partner to accept this and even more, to wholeheartedly join in?

If you are extremely lucky she may well share your view that a threesome could be fun, in fact a real turn on. She may have been harbouring her own fantasies about a woman to woman experience and be highly aroused by being with a woman and you. But how would you feel if these two hot women hit it off so well they prefer you not to be present? Or that she is ready for a threesome but with you and another man? These are now looking like deep and dangerous waters!

Definitely do NOT think this is something you can just pop into the conversation over breakfast. Will she express fear, shame, rage; or will she feel excited, empowered and included in this scenario - or will she feel rejected, pressurised and insecure? The best way to make a male-female-female threesome happen is to widen your focus and open your relationship up to possibilities that are leading towards your ultimate goal. In fact, a woman who wants to satisfy her husband and fulfill their mutual bedroom desires will not only agree to try new positions and experiences, but will enjoy doing so.

Begin by fantasizing about others - develop the idea of a threesome as a big turn on for both of you and talk about this during sex. Read erotica or write out fantasies for each other to enjoy, watch erotic adult movies and work towards the more explicit porn movies. Women are mostly not as impressed by adult movies as the guys, so compliment her and say she is just as good looking, just as sexy, getting her to empathise with the female roles. Enjoy sex in different locations. Maybe she will even consider swinging, then threesomes....foursomes and a whole wider range of sexual activities are on the horizon. Most of all, her place in this projected experiment must be inclusive.

The stage is set, but the biggest obstacle is usually in choosing the perfect partner. A friend is too awkward both now and in the long term and a random encounter is too risky. The safest way is to hire a female escort through a reputable agency. A hot bi-female who will accelerate the sexual tension for both of you with literally no strings attached. If she is unwilling to meet you halfway and keep things fresh and exciting or indulge your desire to try new things in bed, then sadly you may have to admit defeat.

This may be the moment when you have to take the selfish stand and book not one but two escorts from your favourite escort agency and lie back and enjoy it. It looks like you may have to be a martyr to the cause; but take it slowly and you'll find yourself having experiences beyond your wildest dreams.

04/05/2015